I'm really struggling with DS the last couple of weeks - he's 4 months old and until a few weeks ago he would fall asleep with cuddles, gentle rocking or feeding. OK, he would wake up whenever you put him down but I could just about cope with spending a few hours every day cuddling him on the sofa. However, the last couple of weeks he has really changed. I start trying to settle him after he has been awake around an hour to an hour and a half, so I don't think he's overtired at that point. However, no matter what I do I cannot help him get to sleep. The more I try, the louder he screams and cries. I know the point of a baby's cry is to make its mum take notice, but I can't bear it any more, it makes me so upset when he cries and I feel so helpless that I can't do anything to help him. If I put him in his cot he wimpers rather than screams, so I did this this morning and tried to let him self settle. However, after 5-10 mins the crying gets louder, I pick him up and cuddle him, which settles him for a couple of minutes and then the screaming starts again :( I feel like I've tried everything and he's just getting more and more tired and more upset and there's nothing I can do to help him sleep.
I don't understand as he is so much better at night - I start his bedtime routine at 6 and he is normally asleep by 6.45-7, which includes me putting him in his cot relaxed and he self settles. He wakes a few times over night but i think this is normal at his age and he settles again reasonably easily each time. So why can he not sleep during the day?? He is tired so definitely needs to and I feel like I'm spending the whole day fighting with him to try to help him sleep! I just don't know what to do :(
Sorry for the long rambling post but I'm struggling to think straight at this point. Any advice / hand-holding much appreciated.
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jennifer86 · 20/07/2015 11:48
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