Ok here's the full situation so as not to drip feed.
My DS is a 8 months old. Always been a very typical sleeper. Not terrible, not amazing. We suffered badly in the 4 month sleep regression but things improved after about 5 weeks.
Between 6-8 months he'd wake once or twice a night. If he woke before 1am a quick cuddle and putting his dummy back in would do the trick. If he woke after that we would just quickly bring him into bed with us. We slowly cut down then dropped the night feed no problems. He'd sleep with the odd few minutes awake from 7:30-7:30.
But now we're in the 8 month wonder week/sleep regression/learning to crawl stage. He's waking slightly later the second time, at around 4am. I have tried cuddling him back to sleep, but he is just wriggling and kicking against me and doing all he can to look around the pitch black room. Me cuddling him seems not to calm him down. Last night I even tried to feed him to see if he was hungry. He took the bottle, fell asleep but then woke as soon as I put him down. This morning it took from 3:30-5:30 for him to get back to sleep.
When he wakes up, he doesn't cry really. He might have a few cries but then he'll just roll about in his cot, babbling to himself and play with his dummy. I have gotten into the habit of going into him as soon as he wakes as I felt this would help him settle quicker as he's had less time to wake himself up properly iyswim.
So none of our old techniques are working, and it's time for some new ones I think. If I cuddle him he fights and in bed with us he just kicks and claws our faces .
I have been tempted to try CC but will only do it as a last resort and when he wakes he doesn't actually cry for quite a while I didn't know if there were other options. I am back working so have to be up at 6:30 anyway... It's not ideal!!
In the day we struggle similarly with naps. He still has 3. We used to be able to extend the lunchtime nap by cuddling him back to sleep, he'd then sleep for up to 2.5 hours. Not anymore. His eyes ping open after 30-40 mins and the babbling begins. I really hoped that spending weeks helping him extend his long nap wth cuddling would put him into the habit of doing this himself, but it hasn't.
We sleep trained during the 4 month sleep regression successfully, we waned to be able to put him in his cot. We can put him down for bed and naps after a quick cuddle and he'll go to sleep in his cot beautifully. But we didn't really tackle the night wakings, just initial settling. We do hear him stir and re settle himself at times in the night so he can do it.
Any advice for me? Is the 8 month sleep regression one to just wait out? Thanks!
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WorkingItOutForMyself · 29/05/2015 09:10
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