I returned to work full time yesterday and my 1 year old started nursery full time too.
Yesterday was tough and she cried a lot at nursery but they said she did really well for her first day. She only slept for 50mins during the whole time at nursery which took the staff a lot of effort in the first place.
She cried when I collected her and was grizzly and clingy the whole evening. It took from 7pm until 10pm to get her to sleep, she woke every hour for her dummy or back rub overnight and was wide awake yet exhausted at 6:30am today (normal wake up is 7:15am)
I went for an hour drive before nursery to get her to have a snooze she was so tired.
Then today they said she did better, less tears but still only 50mins of sleep. She was much happier at home tonight but after initially sleeping well from 7pm-10pm we have spent since then trying to get her to sleep. We've cuddled, rubbed her back, stroked her face, rocked her, I tried to sleep on the floor next to the cot just so I was still in the room, we've let her cry for a bit........ Hubby has almost got her off now but worried as soon as he leaves the room she'll wake.
It's now only 4hrs until we get up to get ourselves ready before getting her up for breakfast and we are both exhausted.
Please tell me she'll get better and sleep more at nursery and be happier there!!
She's always been a troubled sleeper and it took 10 months to get her to go to sleep at bedtime, naps have always been tricky (used to have 3 x 30mins but now more 1 x 1hr and 1 x 30mins) and the past few weeks seem to have been a regression (possibly teeth coming as only just got her first 2 before xmas) but I don't think I can survive if we have more nights like this.
Already my evenings are packed full of giving her some food (a light snack), playing with her, giving her a bath, bedtime story, having my tea, washing up, prepping tea for the next night, before a quick sit down, then she's awake screaming and the rest of the night is spent trying to settle her. I want time to sleep and shower myself!!
It's broken me tonight, I have been crying uncontrollably on the floor wondering what I'm doing wrong.
Please help.
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Frizz1986 · 07/01/2015 02:04
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