And what sort of crying? DS is nearly 4 weeks and is my PFB and a couple of people have said to me that they thought their second child slept better than their first because they didn't [couldn't] respond to every cry. I am trying to be quite aware of not jumping every time he squeaks but also not leaving him! (I thought before I had him that I'd be able to tolerate more crying than I can!!My limit for proper crying is about 2 min max)
I generally don't pick up for grizzles but do for wails (esp when I'm trying to get him to sleep), but occasionally I haven't got there in time and he's let off a couple of wails & then settled to sleep. Then sometimes the wails means he just needs to be picked up for a final winding & cuddle & then goes straight to sleep when put down again after a minute or two. I also try to keep an eye on when I've put him down for a nap and if crying breaks out around the 45 minute mark I try to tolerate it (shush, rock the buggy, whatever) to get him into the next sleep cycle without being picked up. But sometimes he just needs a cuddle.
I'm trying to learn the dfferent cries (I think he's still a bit young for this) & I think the biggest difficulty is mistaking a cluster feeding cry for an overstimulated/overtired cry...
I'm just quite interested in this as it seems everyone's definition of controlled crying etc is different. This doesn't feel like "controlled crying" to me, it feels like trying to interpret what he's trying to tell us, but I guess everyone's tolerance is different. And of course DS is still so tiny, I have no idea whether what we're doing will help create good sleep habits etc in the future or not.
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How much crying do you tolerate?
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Gennz · 17/12/2014 23:30
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