Hey, my 8 month old dd has been co-sleeping since birth after she downright refused to do anything else! I came quickly to love cos-sleeping but now its no longer working and I have a very unsettled baby on my hands. :(
During the day she naps in her pushchair or in the car, and she naps fairly well in those places. At night she feeds to sleep on a mattress on the floor of her bedroom, where I sleep with her most of the time. She goes to sleep at a decent time, between 6 and 7pm usually and has a good bedtime routine. However, she doesn't know how to self settle and she's now waking up on average EVERY HOUR, sometimes more, during the night and having to be fed back to sleep. This has been going on for a while now. It doesn't seem to make a difference whether I'm cuddled up with her or left her there on her own while I'm downstairs, she's still waking up the same amount and won't settle with a rub or a cuddle, it has to be a boob! Sometimes she'll feed on one boob then cry out again until I give her the other, the switching from boob to boob can go on for a while until she eventually goes off and I get absolutely exhausted! I'm struggling, as the co-sleeping used to be the answer to my prayers as I got a fair amount of sleep- and now I don't! I've read the No Cry sleep solution and figured I need to gradually make her less dependent on feeds so she she can put herself back to sleep; has anyone managed to do this using the Pantley Pull off? I've tried a couple of times when she first goes to bed but not found the willpower to bother in the middle of the night. I think if I knew it has worked for people and how they did it maybe would give me the energy to have a proper go at it!!!
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Aimeelou28 · 11/10/2013 19:10
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