I can see from reading the threads here - and real life people! - that 6 month olds generally seem to be a bit rubbish at sleeping. however I hope that someone might be able to help a little with this particular variety of non-sleeping.
My girl is 6.5 months. She won't stay settled in the evenings. It's like she will only stay sleeping if on the boob or in direct physical contact with me. i love her to pieces, but this is wearing me seriously thin.
I put her to bed about 7ish (somewhere between 6.30-8), having fed her to sleep, and from then on she wakes every 10mins- 45 mins complaining until about 11ish, when I go to bed. If I feed her, she takes the tiniest of sucks and drops off again, often without ever opening her eyes. (cue me slowly escaping).
If I try not feeding her, ie rock/sing/shush-pat, she gets steadily more infuriated. Husband has some occasional luck with settling her by singing, me, none.
My arms in through the side of the cot don't seem enough, she has to be lying next to me. at the moment, I've persuaded her to accept lying against my leg rather than chest, which at least lets me watch iplayer/ mumsnet.
this goes on until I go to bed, at which point she has me next to her. She seems much happier then, and sleeps more or less solidly through till the early morning, when she has a feed then another doze before waking properly about 7ish.
husband suggests that she's not tired enough, but I put bedtime back to this sort of time because I figured she was overtired. I think her through-the-night wakings have got better since shifting bedtime (she was doing every 1-2hrs) but to be honest I don't definitely know as we are co-sleeping and I don't fully wake up. I'm ok with the night-time stuff - either she's sleeping for a 6hour ish stretch, or feeding without waking me. would like to have her in her cot all night as a next step, but want to get this evening stuff sorted first.
she's pretty good with her daytime naps now, since i've been working on getting those at a more regular time. will sleep in the cot then (feeds to sleep, but then stays settled once I put her down). also sleeps well in buggy.
Routine is more or less
7.30 wake
9.30ish nap for 30-60 mins
1pmish nap for 30mins- 2 hours
5.30ish bath, start of bedtime routine. aim for sleep 12 hours after she woke in morning, but is dictated by whenever she feeds to sleep.
There must be a gentle, kind way to help her be a bit more settled in the evenings? I would just love to have a little time off duty (sounding very self-pitying!).
Thanks for reading.
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anyname2011 · 06/12/2012 21:22
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