dd2 is 9.5 months old. She doesnt sleep, she is tired all the time but wont sleep.
She used to only sleep on me and with dd1 being just 15 months older it was impractical. So after trying cc, which just made her hysterical and kept dd1 up, I spoke to the hv and she suggested sitting next to dd2 in the cot.
So I put her in her cot, sit next to her, with my hand on her chest or back. Eventually she will fall asleep, but this can take up to an hour. during this time she is staring, at me, at the celing, at the door, anywhere. But she wont sleep. Its almost like she sleeps with her eyes open! When she finally is asleep, I leave the room with out maiking a sound and I have 20 minutes tops before she wakes up. and thats it, her nap is over.
I've tried re settling her and startign all over again but she gets hysterical and makes herself sick :(.
How do I move beyond this point? what I want is to put her down and leave her to fall asleep by herself, I want her to be able to resettle herself when she wakes momentarily, not get upset because I'm not there.
ARGGH in the time its taken to write this, she is awake and crying again :( I have to go to her because dd1 is napping too and I dont want her to wake up, she will be really grumpy.
please help!
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addictedismoving · 27/11/2012 12:42
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