i've accidentally started co-sleeping with ds. We had a terrible birth and were in the hospital for a while, so ds was in the bed with me (as i was in too much pain to keep getting up). Same when we got home - i slept in the bed in the nursery with him for ease of bfing. When we tried to get him in his moses basket at 2wks old he wasn't having any of it. So still being in pain and needing sleep i kept taking him in the bed with me
Now he is 7 wks old and too big for the moses basket and still in the big bed with me. poor dp is in the nursery instead and i am missing him dreadfully.
We have the big cot up in the bedroom (at the foot of the bed) but ds wakes the moment we lay him in it. I am wondering if he is too young/small for the big cot.
So my question is how to get him out of the bed? and is he too small for the cot? I think maybe my problem is i don't want him that far away from me. I am looking at him curled up on me now and i can't bear the thought of him not being arms reach away. our bedroom is too small for a cot next to the bed.
My parents/family are pressuring me to get him out of the bed, and i am missing dp so much, that half of me wants it too (he works really long hours so the only time we have together is night, also i am completely alone in the day and do really want to just be near to another adult). But the other half of me wants this time that i will never get back with ds.
Does anyone know of any compromises? or have any advice?
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should i try to get ds out of our bed? and if so, how?
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Spuddybean · 01/11/2012 23:44
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