Ok, I'll try to keep this brief, and I'm well aware that sleep problems can be lots worse than this (mostly because I have experienced several)...
DD has never been great at self settling. The best we ever got was a phase of leaving her to shout for 15ish mins and then she would conk out. I never liked it and things like teething/ jabs/ etc interrupted my resolve to leave her for that long IYSWIM so we have gradually got out of the habit of it. Now we are in a rubbish situation where every nap and bed time she will do her best to fight sleep, standing up arsing around in her cot until she is knackered and then has a meltdown. At present I stay in her room for the whole time. I pick her up and do cuddling and shushing for a couple of minutes when she gets really overwrought. If this did actually comfort her I'd probably be quite happy, but actually nothing comforts her - not cuddling, singing, shushing, patting - nothing. And so she more or less just carries on having a real paddy until she finally goes to sleep. Most of the time this happens when she is actually in her cot, not being held. I am always tempted to just leave her to get on with it as me being there honestly doesn't seem to comfort her, but the thought of doing nothing to try to help just makes me feel like such a witch. If I could just get her to stay calm and not work herself up, I think she'd be able to self settle and we'd all be much happier. Sorry for essay and hope this makes sense. Oh, and yes we do have a routine, including bath, story, milk, bed etc and I know she is tired when I put her down.
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ugh. self settling with 11 month old. tips on calming, anyone?
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passmyglass · 18/07/2012 13:40
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