My 7mo never naps for more than 40 minutes at a time and she rarely sleeps for longer than 3 hours at a stretch at night (sometimes the wakings are even more frequent). Although I try to extend her naps by intervening the moment she stirs by shushing/rocking/pushing pushchair back and forth, it rarely works. This results in most of the daytime with her rubbing her eyes and grizzling. She has never been able to drift off to sleep by herself. Oh, how I?d love one of those babies who can nap in their jumperoo/highchair!
At night she just won?t settle before about 10 - 10.30pm. I?ve been trying to bring her bedtime forward as I know she needs to go to sleep before then. I start her bedtime routine at about 7.30pm. By about 8pm she?ll be asleep (by breastfeeding or rocking) but she?ll be awake 45 mins later. I then have to rock/feed again (I?m desperately trying to stop resorting to feeding to get her to sleep though, but sometimes this is the only thing that?ll work). She might then sleep for an hour, then I have to go through the rocking/feeding again. It?s so frustrating as quite often she?ll be ostensibly asleep in my arms, but the moment I put her down her eyes will ping open again. Pick her up, she?ll go to sleep immediately; put her down she?ll wake up. Last night it took about 5 or 6 attempts at putting her down. Eventually, at about 10pm she?ll sleep for a few hours. Her night-time wakings seem to get closer together as the night goes on (i.e. I might get 3 hours, 2 hours, 1 hour etc) By about 5.30am she really won?t settle back in her cot, at which point I bring her into bed and we?ll get another couple of hours.
I?ve tried leaving her when she wakes up to see if she self-settles and she used to be able to do this some of the time. Now she very quickly goes to being very awake and starts thrashing around her cot or she starts crying, so there is no chance she?ll drift off to sleep again by herself.
Sorry this is so long; I wanted to try to get everything down. Reading this back it feels as if we?re in a right mess and that she has become far too reliant on me to get to sleep. I?m shattered and feel as though I spend my entire time trying to get my baby to go to sleep.
Any advice/support welcome!
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KentishMaid1977 · 08/09/2011 13:28
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