9 week old DD, bootifull, but a sleep fighter. Much more cuddly than her brother was, but struggles to settle herself for naps, which she always desperately needs. (Night time getting good, settles quickly after 1 or 2 night feeds.) Day time a right pain now. I watch her, and put her down after an hour or so. She'll be relaxed some times, then start to scream just as she should be falling asleep. It's like she just can't do the last bit. I've read BW, Sergeant GF, baby Secrets etc. Have clearly read too much and can't actually do anything practically!
She can settle from a different method for each of three or four naps in the day. Not so bad 2 days a week when DS not around, but hate to keep shhhsing him to, 'get the baby to sleep. It's not fair on him, but I'm hopeless at leaving her to cry. HV said 'Mum's often leave 2nd babies to cry, they have too.' Not much help, as I just cant. She likes to be rocked, have a dummy, boob fed to sleep, once she bottle fed to sleep. Rocked in arms, over shoulder, across legs. Sometimes in pram, but no one thing works every time.
DS didn't have a dummy and went down in cot for a morning nap since he was tiny, BUT it took ages to get him to learn to self soothe, and I had the time to do it. (He also always slept well in pram. Not so easy to do 2nd time round. Can't drag DS out for a walk every three hours, plus wonky walking with buggy board several times a day would cripple me for life.)
Wish I could sort it. She screams so much when she's over tired, and gets so upset. Also, this 'EASY' method. How does that work if she wakes way before a 3 hourly ish feed is due? We're in a bit of a pickle. HV just says, if she's sleeping at night, you're doing fine. Great, thanks. Maybe but daytime can be a bloody nightmare!
Sorry for long waffle. I'm just struggling having two of them.
Do I just have to let her scream and keep popping in between re-plays of Chuggington?
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Getting 9 week old to settle for naps. Crazy 2.4 year old to keep happy/quiet. How to do both!?
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mrshotrod · 27/08/2011 22:18
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