I want to go for it, overhaul the routine and get DD sorted out once and for all. I'm all for co-sleeping and feeding all night if it makes us happy, but it's no longer working for us. DD is waking every 1-3 hours and starting to have trouble falling asleep after the one feed so just as I get back to sleep, she's crying for more.
She's just come down a bit from 91st centile so no worries about growth, but she's not great with food. She does manage a lot of fruit and seems to like most of what we eat, she just seems bored of it after a couple of spoonfuls. We do let her get stuck in with her hands but she's mostly chucking it all on the floor. I think we're stuck in a cycle where she's feeding so much to settle herself to sleep, but then is too full to eat in the day.
So this is the plan. Any comments welcome- I hope it doesn't seem harsh, but I'm struggling to keep my cool with her at night.
-Convert co-sleeper to full cot, she's crawling now and has never seemed that bothered about cuddling up, she's all about the boob.
-Down at 6.30pm after bath, book and feed, Pantley Pull-off method so I can put her down awake.
-ShushPat to settle, aiming to do less each night and eventually be able to leave the room.
-Initially limit feeds to 4 hourly, but if she learns to self settle, stretching this out an hour at a time.
-Daytime routine- try and space milk feeds and solids by about an hour. No naps after 3.30pm. Lots of fresh air and stimulation in the daytime.
I'm also thinking about DP and I sleeping in the front room to see if that helps, though maybe not a long term solution. I guess if it helps, we could find a more permanent solution, like partitioning off a bit of the bedroom. She's often woken by one of us rolling over in bed and worse since mumsnet made us buy posh cotton sheets :)
Anything else I can do? She's a lovely, easygoing, little girl in the daytime and I'm not going to feel good about letting her cry when it could be solved easily by feeding her, but I think she's got into a habit that she can't break herself.
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HotChip · 12/08/2011 13:02
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