Sometimes I read those beautiful stories about 13mo sleeping by themselves, all night, yadda yadda yadda. "You put them in the cot, tell a story, cuddle them and go away" and supposedly they would stay put, sleep and stay asleep until the next morning.
In real life I know very few babies who do any of that, and some of them I know were heavily tortured trained with controlled crying and the like. Even the naturally good sleepers wake to feed a few times.
Bedtime: my 13mo DS sometimes sleeps in the breast - if not, it takes over one hour with me laying him in the cot and him standing up. When he's nearly falling asleep he starts moving again to fight sleep.
After that, he will wake up a couple of times, sit up or stand on the cot and make noises to call me. He feeds a few times in the night (we've had some very good nights in which he fed 2 times in 12 hours, but that's not usual). He sleeps part of the night in his cot, part in my bed.
After 4am he tends to wake to feed more frequently, until about 8am.
The reason I'm asking about how other DC the same age sleep is that I want to know what is realistic to expect from him, what I can try to get him to do and what is just made up unrealistic scenarios invented by people who want to make us feel inadequate buy their books.
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schroedingersdodo · 02/06/2011 17:39
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