We are increasingly struggling to get DD, who is 2, to sleep at anything resembling a normal bedtime. I'm hoping someone can give us some tips about what we're doing wrong and what we can do to make it better.
She has been in her big bed for about a month, after asking for it. We had planned moving her in January - as we'll soon need the cot for DS (10 weeks) - but she asked for it sooner. Initially it worked brilliantly, she loves the bed and would go to sleep by herself happily. Then she went through a phase of waking in the night, which I think was due to being cold, and DP stroked her hair till she fell asleep again. Then she suddenly started wanting him to do that at bedtime, and it's been getting harder and harder to get her off. Three hours last night, and as I type he's still at it now. We've tried rapid return but she's so quick he can't even get out of the room before she's at the door blocking his exit! She quickly gets really upset and screams to go downstairs, kicks and fights any attempt to put her back in bed, and generally makes rapid return impossible! There's a stairgate on her door but we're loathe to just leave her as she gets so upset.
I've taken to feeding DS in our room in the evening and making sure she knows, in case she thought we were all having fun downstairs without her. But no change. She never asks to come into our room.
I'm hoping someone has some helpful advice for us as it is really wearing for us all. She has recently dropped her daytime naps, and finds it hard to sleep later than half-six in the morning, so she's exhausted and ratty during the day.
TIA
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2 year old bedtime disaster - suggestions please!
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naomilpeb · 19/12/2010 20:24
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