I am feeling frustrated and want to get some idea as to whether I am being unreasonable or not.
I have been with my partner for 2 years. For the first 6 months or so we would have sex at night and also in the morning. We only saw each other once a week.
He was keen to have sex at night.
We now spend 3 nights a week together- have done for the past year and a half.
We have sex 2-3 times a week, however for ages now he has never wanted sex at night, only in the mornings.
I find this very frustrating. My sex drive is higher than his but I don't pester him.
I have let him know( gently) that I would enjoy having evening/ afternoon/ any sex other than always in the morning and in bed.
Things haven't changed. I prefer sex at night personally and would like to have it then every once in a while.
What do other people do in situations like this? Do you and your partners compromise? I am being unreasonable in hoping that he will do for me what I have been doing for him for over a year and that is not having sex when I ideally feel like it most .
I don't mean that I ever have sex just to please him,I enjoy sex .
Just I would like to ring the changes and have a chance to have sex when I am feeling frisky- I just get turned down if I try to initiate this if it's not the morning.
Not sure what to do.
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Do you and your partner compromise on when you have sex?
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BigButtons · 30/11/2020 15:47
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