Deepthroat gagging

[gwraig]

Is it possible to not literally throw up eventually? I love doing it but I end up being sick every time which embarrasses me.
Any tips gratefully received

[LemonPeonies]

Years ago with an ex I used to throw up but these days I don't. The only changes are I don't drink alcohol anymore and I try not to eat within a few hours before I do it. It's one of my favourite things to do

[xpc316e]

It is a case of practice makes perfect for many people. There are many instructional clips on youtube that are well worth watching. Quite a few mention a pressure point thing where the left thumb is curled into the palm to apply pressure to a nerve. It does seem to work for some people; whether it is psychological or not is up for debate, but if it works for you, it works.

Some people have had success with hypnosis, so perhaps that is something to bear in mind. One girlfriend, who was phenomenal at deep-throating, said the key for her for was actually swallowing as the cock hit the back of her throat.

We all learn at different rates and we start from different places, but it definitely is a technique that can be learned and practised, so do not lose heart.

[Thelittleweasel]

@gwraig

Practice with a [peeled] banana - or other edible item depending on potential partner's "size".

If that happens I would not think too much of a partner who insisted/persisted; bit of a turn off for him?

[StarlightLady]

I’d like to take you way back to something mum taught sister and l in our teens. “If it doesn’t make you feel nice don’t do it”.

Wise words to this day. Sex is about passion, not a discomfort contest. You really don’t need to try and encompass the lot.

[GreekOddess]

@StarlightLady. Quite. If something makes you puke it isn't pleasurable!

[xpc316e]

We need to carefully read the original post: gwraig says she loves deepthroating, but wants to be able to do it without throwing up; at no stage does she tell us that she is doing it because she is being coerced into it, or that she doesn't want to do it.

It may be the case that many people find that puking overwhelms the pleasure, but for her the pleasure overwhelms the puking part.

I fully agree that none of us should ever be in a position where we perform a sexual act that we do not find pleasurable, but that isn't the case here.

[bowtieandheels]

I have found the position my body is in makes a big difference. If he's lying down it makes me gag, if I'm lying down on my back and he's basically fucking my mouth I don't gag and it's very pleasurable.

[OooAhhh]

Hi OP! Another deep throat lover here. All I can say is practice! I love it. And I'm bloody good at it! But it has taken time to get to the point we're at. Admittedly I've never been sick in the past from it but I have had a good old gag. If you like it, just keep going!

[madcow88]

My partner loves it when I am sick!! Tbh I'm getting better at not been sick... my gag reflex is getting better with practice.

[EvenMoreFuriousVexation]

I agree that a lot of it depends on angle. If the cock is one of those which gets erect very firmly upwards and towards his belly, then I find it most comfortable to be in a pseudo-69 position (I hate 69 itself but basically so the cock is aiming directly down your throat.)

If he has trouble getting hard or has a smaller cock, then I can usually approach from the side or directly on top of him.

I've found larger helmets are actually easier to handle without gagging, not sure why. But a guy with an all-round average length and girth often makes me gag like crazy.

My gag reflex isn't particularly sensitive but my two golden rules are:

1. Not within 30 mins of having eaten
2. No alcohol more than the drink-drive limit

Also, ensure that you're controlling the action, tell your partner that a hand on your head to guide you/give you the rhythm is sexy but gripping your hair and forcing your head down is most definitely not.

[EssenceAbsolue]

I agree with PPs that alot depends on the angle and that larger ones seem to be easier to handle. I also prefer when its not too bent.

I find it most comfortable whilst being on my knees, I just make sure that I'm comfortable (soft under knees), keeping in mind that a) YOU are in control and b) that no matter what you will not hurt yourself even if you choke on it.
In terms of technique, I find it helpful moving your tongue forward whilst its in your mouth helps alot, as you if wanted swallow the entire shaft (and usually that moment is met with a gasp/moan of applause lol)

I absolutely love deep throating and spend quite a long time finding the technique that would make me most comfortable so I can do it longer and make it extra sloppy if thats the mood we're in.