First time MFF Hook up Tips please

(12 Posts)
Rejectthetossers Tue 14-Jan-20 13:19:28

So after 20 odd years in a nearly sexless relationship I 'm now,discovering my inner sex goddess...
Anyhoo I joined FAB and have arranged to meet a couple who are looking for a bi playful female ....I've always quite fancied what it would be like to have sex with another woman and I'm excited to meet them ( lots of email contact etc)
Is there any seasoned swingers who can give me any hints and tips or even tell me what to expect ....
I've got to go out so may not be able to reply straight away...

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noego Tue 14-Jan-20 14:19:31

If they're experienced let them lead the way. Just be open and ensure you're safe.

Namechangedyorkshire Wed 15-Jan-20 06:19:49

I'm not seasoned in that sense but a few years ago my then Dp and I were on holiday with another couple, shared villa etc and we ended up one afternoon having a few wines and ended up jokes, games and then playing which resulted in a foursome. Was same room, but essentially swapping partners but clearly they were either more experienced or confident than us. Part way through she just came over and well joined in so she led things and gradually when she saw I wasn't objecting and was responding she just got more and more involved in it. Without giving TMI it got very intimate and both guys watching for a while.

So yes, I guess let them lead. If it is their first time then you need to decide if they are the best couple to have an experience with but I'm sure it will work out. They will love it first time I suspect as well

Tellingitlikeitisnt Wed 15-Jan-20 08:40:46

Blimey @Namechangedyorkshire was the rest of the holiday awkward?!

lmnoh Wed 15-Jan-20 15:38:12

Following ... ;-)

namechangedyorkshire Wed 15-Jan-20 17:45:49

Lol...not really...was nearly the end of the holiday and we agreed it was an enjoyable experience fuelled really by wine but we wouldn't repeat

Jiggles101 Fri 17-Jan-20 21:03:11

OP you are what's known as a unicorn- that rare bi-curious female up for threesomes with couples.

This means your stock is much higher than theirs, so they should be going out of their way to make sure YOU have a great time. Know your worth!


Cheesypoof Sat 18-Jan-20 11:01:45

That's interesting. I would have though it would be quite a popular thing to do, in that community. I've never done anything like that though smile

StarlightLady Sun 19-Jan-20 06:37:38

I’m not a swinger so maybe shouldn’t be commenting here. But neither am l a prude. I would not suggest any woman has their first same gender encounter in the presence of another.

BethPorter Sat 15-Feb-20 03:59:06

Would like to know how it worked out.

LadShropshire Sat 15-Feb-20 07:56:29

@Namechangedyorkshire sounds fun - you should mention it more often

ILSSM Sat 15-Feb-20 18:49:51

I’m also on fab.

Arranging the same thing to meet with a couple at the end of March for a night/evening.

First time with a female.. so I will be looking up tips

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