I'm going crazy over thinking this so I thought you vipers might give my head a wobble.
Reasons why I think he may be heavily dependant on porn, if not actually addicted:
- he doesn't watch it at home (afaik) but he works away a lot and he watches it once/twice a day from what he says.
- he very, very rarely masturbates without porn.
- he's secretive about it even though he knows it upsets me
- he struggles to come during sex unless I'm using my hands. Normal intercourse and blowjobs basically stand no chance. He does finish inside me sometimes but only after an age of trying or unless I'm on top. Whichever way, it takes him a long time to come.
He's been single for much of the last six years so I imagine he used porn a lot then but he lied to me about it at the beginning of the relationship.
This is now causing real problems in our relationship and I'd be very grateful for some outside opinions.