Threesome/foursome

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Tannitot Sat 20-Aug-16 01:12:11

We are a young married couple with a very active sexual life, thinking about exploring new things, possibly as a one off thing or maybe more often. Has anyone tried this and if so how did you go about finding another willing couple or woman? Also were there any repercussions afterwards?

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Brightredpencil Mon 22-Aug-16 12:20:44

Not done this myself (yet) but I think the general advice is to join a swingers club. It avoids any mis matches of expectations in terms of relationships and jealousy etc. You can also go to various parties without necessarily joining in the first time.

Ineedmorelemonpledge Tue 23-Aug-16 09:22:39

Try registering on Adulthub?

As for repercussions, it's difficult to say really. It all depends on the strength of your relationship and how open and accepting both of you really are to doing this, and the relationships you want to have with the people you are involved with.

I was never in a relationship when I involved myself in a group scenario. So I can't really give advice from that perspective.

But I know the reality of some of my experiences was very different to the fantasy. grin

Was fun though!

KatieHopkinsAteMyHamster99 Wed 24-Aug-16 11:28:20

Have you looked on Fabswingers website. There's lots of info on clubs, forums and also it functions as a hook up site although I've not met anyone off it. There are people from all walks of life and some of it is a bit too in your face for me.

DH and I have had foursomes with couples we've met in swingers clubs. It's an incredible buzz to go on the pull with him smile but you have to be very sure you are both up for it it is hit or miss whether you meet anyone you click with and more complicated when there's 4 people in the equation. the sex has been absolutely freaking amazing though. Can't wait to do it again!

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