My 13 year old dd is in a group of 5 friends at school. I only know one of them, but from waht dd says, they all sound nice, ordinary sort of girls - they have fun together and go into town together after school -that sort of thing. Dd came home earlier in the week very quiet and sad - and told me that one of them is having a birthday sleepover - and they are all going except dd. It's not a mistake she's left out - one of the others said to her in the bus "It's a bit awkward that X hasn't invited you, isn't it?" The party person is being quite normally friendly to dd - and there haven't been any fallings out or anything.
Dd wants to just carry on as if nothing's happened. She's got the friend a present and actually we're going away for the weekend so she couldn't have gone anyway. I'm wondering whether she should find a way of asking why she wasn't invited - not in a demanding sort of way, but in a puzzled, sad sort of way (which reflects exactly the way she's feeling). Or do I just butt out and let her handle it her way without even suggesting she enquires further?
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Girls and their friends - AGAIN!!!!
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seeker · 18/09/2009 06:17
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