except maybe textiles - tapestries and weaving.
She attends an excellent school, is supported for maths with a private tutor and is regarded as a polite girl who works to please her teachers and is predicted 5-6's for most subjects although she is not obviously that interested in any particular subject apart from maybe textiles.
We don't think she will be up to studying anything at A-level (and she hasn't expressed any interest in doing so).
She struggles to maintain concentration (something we have been concerned about since primary school but there is no obvious learning difficulty) - we are trying to think of what she might do after her GCSE's but it is difficult to engage her in any constructive conversation about the future.
She has a nice circle of friends and seems happy although some teachers have said she seems disinterested in the work, in spite of seeming content and being polite and getting on with the work she is expected to do, she seems to find "thinking" hard - her tutor has said that that, when asked about what she is thinking when apparently stuck on a problem, she maintains that she is thinking absolutely nothing! It has always been difficult to understand what goes on in her head.
We are struggling to think of how to proceed - does this picture resonate with anyone else?
We have wondered for some time if she has a learning difficulty but it is difficult to get the school interested into looking into this when there is no obvious problem - her tutor has tried to research this as they have seen "some" similarities to other students they have seen with the attention deficit part of ADHD, her demeanour and the way learning is affected in children with dyspraxia was also mentioned (but again this doesn't fit as she is well co-ordinated in her movements as she plays netball) - these are both spectrum disorders so there is a wide range of ways in which people can be affected - the descriptions of "executive functioning" issues seems to fit in some ways but not exactly - whatever it is about her learning style it is not an obvious or easy to define problem.
I'm hoping someone will read this and it will resonate.
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Daughter, GCSE year - L5-6's predicted but not interested in anything
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larkstar · 24/02/2019 01:41
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