My sons attend a secondary school that none of their primary school friends attend, so they have made new friends.
The secondary takes from a large area and lots of the new friends have known each other since primary. From year 7 onwards his best mate has been to our house on many occasions and my son has also been to his. The Mum is lovely and we have a sporadic friendship (work commitments) but as she already knew the parents of the others in the group she reassured me they are all nice kids and also reassured them my child is lovely. All the children have been out together, no adults so it was important to know they wouldn't be idiots.
My son is now in year 10 and has this year been sat with a boy in some classes and they game together a lot, connecting over the internet. So much so that Ds is talking about bringing him round to our house after school. But the child has refused to tell my son where he lives saying it is stalking to want to know where he lives. But he would know where we live as he would be coming here.
I never realised revealing your street name to someone you consider a good mate was weird or wrong. I am not local to this area so maybe it is something particular to here or did I just grow up in a town where everyone said where they lived? I attended a Catholic school so we came from all over, rich and poor and I was definitely in the latter category.
Do you know roughly where your children's friends live? Is it different in any way for girls and boys?
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ElectricSeal · 05/07/2018 19:11
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