Dd is in Year 10 at a girls' grammar. She's not bad at Maths but in a high achieving school like this she thinks she is near the bottom.
They were supposed to be set for Maths this year but the school have decided not to this year, much to dd's disappointment. She was hoping for the bottom set which would entail a smaller group and hopefully a good teacher.
Dd has had poor mental health for a while, we are just waiting for an appointment to see a therapist. In the meantime, she is really stressed out about her work among other things, especially Maths.
In class, dd sits near the teacher's desk and apparently the teacher is on dd's back the whole time. Asking her if she's understood multiple times, has she done the homework and so on. Dd is made to feel as she's at the bottom of the class. This teacher also talks a lot about GCSE grades, she wants them all to get 9s. Dd would be very happy with a 7 or 8 but the teacher tells her to aim for a 9 even if dd thinks that is unrealistic.
Dd is really trying with her Maths and always does the homework. But sometimes she leaves questions out if she genuinely can't do it and the teacher tells her off about this. Dd says she is doing her best, she asks friends for help, she looks at online resources etc, she's certainly not resting on her laurels.
Last week dd missed a Maths lesson as she had her GCSE Drama devising performance for most of the day. She obviously missed work and now is struggling with the homework. She's dreading Maths tomorrow as she thinks she will get another telling off.
Dd doesn't want me to get involved but I'm finding it very hard to stand by and see dd's health and self-esteem go downhill.
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Dancergirl · 12/03/2018 19:18
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