DS is 15. He does have dyslexia, which I know means he can find school exhausting, but sometimes my gut reaction is that he's fibbing when he says he's feeling ill and should stay off school. But then I also feel guilty for not believing him .
He's in a school show this week and was late back last night. As soon as he came in he started saying 'he could feel a cold coming on/ had a sore throat etc' but I was a bit as I think he always does this 'pre-empting' thing when he's decided he doesn't fancy school the next morning.
Then this morning he was making a big show of how ill he felt - dragging his feet, rubbing his head, putting his dressing gown hood up "I'm so cold" etc. My gut reaction was that it was all an act... something just seemed a bit fake about it.
DH took his temperature and it was fine. He wasn't sneezing and his nose didn't sound blocked. Although he seemed to be blowing his nose, it didn't sound necessary - again, almost for affect .
So we dosed him with paracetamol and DH said he'd drop him off at school . DH says that in the car he was silent and grumpy and slammed the door shut. DH's view is that DS 'knows he's been rumbled!'
I tend to agree, but my more charitable side wonders if we are being a bit hard?
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