I'm at a loss as to how to move forward frankly. DD st supposedly outstanding girls state school in Year 8. Diagnosed dyslexic and also takes meds for improved concentration. We have had fantastic external tutor for 3 years and recently employed a maths tutor as struggling in understanding phrasing of questions. DD got 4c in SATS despite primary school lack of support of issues, didn't even give her extra time which all paperwork says she is entitled to. Nonverbal cat scores place her on 99th percentile - she is very bright but has needed support to structure writing. Made amazing, amazing progress and reads beautifully and writes very well now.
Current school have based all targets off key stage 2 and will not allow for any movement. Stuck her in bottom sets for everything (gifted in music and very good at design and arts) But due to fisher family friends scoring system targets are really low, well below her capabilities. Behaviour from others on her teaching set is poor and disruptive. Not all but a large % of them.
School policy is not to give any info on targets to parents, for in house only. Only say if working below, at or exceeding them. Their stance is it creates a positive mindset. So you won't find out until Year 9 if your child is working at a level that means they will fail at GCSE. Will not give info to us to feed back to tutors about areas to work on or areas we can close gaps.
I have been asking for months but I'm now so fustrated I can't hold my temper any longer. We can't move her, no spaces locally and she has friends and is settled. I'm pulling my hair out here. I have no idea how to move forward from here. So upset, I feel like I'm failing her.
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Slummymummy2017 · 25/03/2017 12:19
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