Hi all. Feel a bit lost, worried and stressed out - not sure what to do so thought I would ask for advice.
First a bit of history - I am a single parent to my to daughters and work full time in London. I leave my house at 6.30 each morning and the girls go to my mums from 7am-5pm.
My mum lives 20 mins away and is under a different council.
When the kids joined primary school, I explained my situation and that mum had them while I worked - no problem. So they attend a school 5 minutes walk from my mums house.
My eldest applied for secondary school this year and we just got offered a school which is a 20 minute walk from my house.
As I leave home at 6.30 each morning not returning until 5.30 (earliest) this would result in leaving a just turned 11 year old at home alone for 4+ hours every day (leaving aside the fact it is illegal), which I am not prepared to do.
At the same time I am unable to be in two places at once (getting her to school and in work in London at 8.30) and that is without factoring in the needs of my younger daughter.
I have tried considering options and cannot see a way out that works:
- to get DD to school I would have to either reduce my working hours or quit = this results in me unable to pay my mortgage
- I try and sell my house and move near mums (which I was in the process of two years ago but fell through a week before exchange. By that time I could no longer afford to get a house there) - no guarantee how long this will take and if it would even make a difference
in addition, I can't move my youngest daughter to a school here as my mum also looks after my nephew who is at the same school as my girls.
Sorry for the long post - I am tying myself in knots trying to figure out what I can do.
Any advice is much appreciated!