I feel like I am letting both kids down in terms of of supporting them with schooling. DD1 needs some help with Maths and French, and other things I suspect. I am WAH and therefore should have all this covered surely? Meal on table, homework expertise supplied, fun activity and lovely hair to boot. None of these things happen.
On a non-activity after school day it goes like this:
DD2 home at 3:30 - snacks and hanging out.
DD1 (age 13/yr 8) gets home at 4:45. Quick Snack and then homework 5 - 6:30. I start doing dinner at 5ish, we eat at 6:30. All done by 7.
7:30 into bath and bedtime routine for younger DD (who was mainly in front of the tv/on tablet till dinner).
Eldest DD has to do instrument practice, then bath/shower. She is usually done by 8. At which point issues with hw seem to emerge and it feels late to be making her start in on it all again. Bedtime is 9 and while she used to read for ages, she is spark out by 9:30 atm.
It's helpful writing it down - how the hell is it taking me 90 minutes to cook a meal for 4 and yet abandon both kids to homework or telly?! Also I wonder if a longer break when she gets home would help her concentrate more? So an hour of hw till dinner and then again supported time after 7.
OH usually home for supper by 6:30, so we could split duties more, I guess - but it feels like we are both flat out already. Argh.
Please don't reply with "just let her get on with it", I strongly believe in helping with homework, especially as a way of understanding how she is developing and if she is struggling. It's only going to get harder in the next few years - how do you fit it all in?
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Tell me how you organise your evenings AND support DCs with homework/extras please?!
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getoffthesofa · 21/02/2017 15:12
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