Hi. I have a yr8 son who has had a bit of a turbulent time since he was 6 with divorce, horrible and ongoing aftermath, a neurological condition with an operation and needing to wear splints. Year 8 is the first year he has been 'normal' i.e.: doesn't wear splints. He is mid stream for his school groups but the problem is he won't try to do better as he is scared to fail, this results in tears and a lot of frustration all round. This has been a problem for a few years and it's only this year when it's come to a bit of a head and his lack of confidence is really affecting him in and out of school. To spare you a lot of the details...he has agreed that he will try a tutor. The question is, what sort of tutor should I look for? I'm not that bothered about the grades, but really want someone...anyone...that can work with him to improve his confidence levels which he can apply to school and social life. Am I better looking for a tutor in a stronger subject for a 'quick win' or are there tutors who generalise but will help with study skills/ confidence....and where can I find them? He is at a high achieving school, which although I have no problem with, he is not really on their radar as he is mid stream. Any advice appreciated. Ps: please do not advise he tries an out school club as I've tried this many times over the years and he resolutely refuses to try anything apart from football.
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