I am planning ahead (or rather worrying ahead) about a secondary for my DS who is currently in Year 3 in an Outstanding state primary in London suburbs. He is a bright boy but also anxious, and not sporty so tends to be friends mostly with the girls. He is very gentle and not at all streetwise! Our secondary options are either a very selective grammar ( even if he got in I think he would hate it), or a very large state secondary. I have always thought that he should go somewhere that his friends are going, and that is familiar as he needs routine and familiarity, but now I'm wondering if we should move out to Surrey and either find a smaller state secondary or even cash in on the property market and pay for a small private school (think could just about do this but as a state teacher I am not entirely sure about private schools even though I went to one myself!) I think his closest girl friends will be off to the girl's grammar so he might not be with them anyway.... So all rather vague and rambling but any advice would be welcome!
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Small state secondaries - do they exist?! Or small nurturing private in Surrey?
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SmellTheGlove · 29/02/2016 14:57
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