I am foreign from completely different education system (not narrowly based on final exams) so this is bewildering. Older DC shrugged nonchalantly thru GCSE yrs. English DH doesn't remember being stressed.
My 14yo takes it all Way Too Seriously. They are only practice tests, I tell her. Not worth sacrificing mental health over. Just practice to figure out what works for you and what skills to use during the exam. You don't have to do every revision activity suggestion, just whichever ones work for you. 2-4x/week she has a tearful hour+ long breakdown about her workload, convinced that she has to spend hours learning every tiny detail and doing every type of revision. She skips going to Guides because she "has to revise". I know that if she didn't revise at all for the mocks she'd still get B-As, doing very well in regular assessments.
She wasn't so perfectionist b4. I know teenage girls can be drama queens. I listen, talk about objective facts, pat her back. Still, wish I could get her to Just Chill Out.
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YeOldeTrout · 10/12/2015 10:27
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