Crap title sorry, couldn't think how to word it.
I am thinking way, way in advance here (dc are 4 and 6!) but dh and I have been planning/thinking a lot about the future lately.
We're planning to move house in about 3 years (waiting for an investment to mature so we have the money to buy somewhere bigger) and are considering where we'll go. DH and I have decided on the area we'd like to live, which also has a fantastic Secondary School we'd like the dc to attend. It's about half an hour away from us.
We think we'll be moving when the dc are going into Year 6 and Year 4. So we have two options:
- Move the dc's primary school, when in Year 6 and Year 4, to one in our new area. Pro's - they'd meet some of the dc that would be moving into Secondary with them. Cons - Years 4 (and especially 6) is quite late in the day to be transferring Primary Schools.
- Keep the dc in their current primary school until they reach Year 6 respectively. Pro's-they get to see out their Primary education all in one place. Cons - the commute (3 years for ds2) of 35 minutes each morning.
I want to go with option 2. There are two nearby Secondary Schools where we are now, and there tends to be a pretty even split in where the dc go. So at the end of Year 6, there will be lots of goodbyes anyway as no one in the class will be moving en masse to the same Secondary. So I feel this is...kinder?...than pulling them out of Primary half way (or at the end in the case of ds1).
Has anyone done this? Moved to a new area but commuted further to allow their dc to finish primary in the same school? Or are we crazy to consider it?
We did briefly consider that moving ds2 at the start of year 5 to a local Primary would be an option but if we'd allowed ds1 to stay at his current Primary, we wouldn't 'make' ds2 move unless he wanted to (which is unlikely!)