I had this very occasionally in primary school, and it was quite frustrating.
If - very rarey I might add - I went to the school about something my son had flagged up as a problem - he could be furious. As If I was being a "snitch" or something.
Today my Y7 son has just said, off-the-cuff, probably in an unguarded moment, there's loads of talking and shouting in class, especially one subject, he can't learn anything , his words. And I had been thinking things had been going so well.
Then he added: "but don't say anything"!
FWIW, I'm not about to charge up to the school, and will put it on slow-burn I suppose but there's a bit of grrr... about it too.
(I am tempted to put this in AIBU, but then somewhere along the line I'd be accused of being a crap parent.)
Any thoughts about what to do when son wants me to stay quiet? He has allowed me to bring up one or two issues, but generally its "be quiet".
Please feel free to be frank...
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Son flags things up going on at school - and then tells me not to say anything!
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