I didn't grow up in the UK and with the exception of two London day schools I am struggling to see where I would get value for money for an eye watering outlay of fees which would involve very big sacrifices for our family. We have had a good experience at our local primary and have supplemented with tutoring when needed, the local comprehensives are on the 'up' and are becoming increasingly popular, although just under half of kids go independent from our primary. DH considers DD will receive a significantly better education with hugely more opportunities at one of the top London independents. How on earth can I compare the quality and breadth of education when one sector creams off the brightest students, surely most of those kids would get As wherever they are? Perhaps teachers have far more freedom in their approach to lessons at an independent? Finding this a hugely loaded debate as of course I want the very best for my child but also see huge value in mixing with a broader range of kids and not counting every penny. I have seen many, many schools and still feel no closer! Further DH is increasingly frustrated that I am not on the same page as him, ready to downsize our house and live off baked beans. Any pearls of wisdom?!
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Chocfinger · 19/09/2014 22:16
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