My dd has been in tears every night since starting back in year 10 as she thinks she has made the wrong choice re options. She selected triple science and has found herself in a class with 23 boys and just 5 girls (including her). The other girls in the class are two sets of best friends and I think my dd is feeling very alone. As far as I can tell the other girls are nice and I have suggested that she tries to sit next to them in lessons. She is quite shy and has always been the type of girl who has had a small number of very close friends. To make matters worse her friends all seem to be together for the majority of their classes. As far as I can see she is with this class for 11 lessons a week. In all her other classes she is with at least one friend (although not always from her close friendship group).
I think that she has had it quite easy up until now moving from a small primary with a couple of friends (who are still part of her friendship group) so I know it will be good for her to branch out and mix with new people but I hate seeing her so upset and am trying to be sympathetic. I realise that it is early days and she needs to give it time but she keeps saying she wishes she had chosen textiles (she was unsure between triple science and textiles and at the last moment opted for science). If this situation were to continue I am prepared to approach the school and discuss her changing subjects but I am not sure how much flexibility they will have in the timetable to do so. I would also prefer to leave it a few weeks. Am I being silly worrying when she has barely been back at school a week?
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allblondegirls · 09/09/2011 12:02
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