My Husband (20yr marriage) out of the blue told me that he doesn't know if he wants to carry on with our relationship and kids. He said that he resents me for not working full time (I work as a midday in a school and do some part time writing work)
Our eldest son (10yrs)has been been seriously hard work the last 6 months and has been causing alot of stress in the household and he said he's sick of it. Now he's back at school he's been so much better and the house is alot better.
I do all the housework, garden maintence and take full responsibility for the children. My husband just does the 'fun things' and I have always accepted this as he works full time.
We have had no arguments at all so I'm so shocked and hurt.
The night he told me this he then went on to want tohave sex with me. I did so as I was hurt and wanted to make things better. The next day he acted as if nothing had happened and then the following day we went on holiday and had a really lovely time. Its now been a month since he said this to me and we've been getting on great he says he loves me and still wants regular sex but if I try an approach what he said he just shuts me down and won't engage. I'm so confused this has messed with my head so much I don't know what to think!
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Costaclub · 17/09/2020 14:17
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