I'm currently on maternity leave with my 7mo and was planning on staying at home with him rather than going back to work. We live in London and my work really isn't flexible so if I go back he would have to be in nursery full time (11 hours a day). I felt this was going to be a bit much for him at 1, so I've been planning on not returning to work and staying at home with him.
I saw the health visitor today who asked about my plans and she said that she thought nursery was the better option as he would be more situmulated and I would have to work hard to recreate that. I do question the wisdom of what the special stimulation nursery could provide is, but am now just feeling really crappy and guilty about my decision to stay home - I feel like I'm being selfish as I just don't want to be away from him for so long. To be honest he does seem happier when we are out and about and when I'm out for lunch with friends and he is getting to meet new people, but I've always felt that the emotional stability of one person is more important. Help please! Is nursery genuinely better for some children? My fear is that I have a 'good' baby and he would just be left in the corner. He is also quite bright (although I imagine all parents think this!) so I thought it would be better for him with me at home, who is interacting with him all the time, rather than at nursery when he is only getting attention when teachers are available. Help!
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gglndn · 09/12/2015 14:43
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