I hope someone can help me. I am a stay at home mum with a 26 month old and 5 month old. I have lots of friends, go to lots of groups, nice home, husband who helps, no money worries. Life should be excellent but I am really struggling to be a SAHM mum!
I feel so lonely and isolated. I used to have a career but now feel I have no identity as a SAHM. I don't want someone else to raise my kids but some days it is such hard work and can be so boring staying at home. I find the daily cycle so tedious and find myself angry and wound up by such silly things like whining, and non stop talking! I hate it when I get cross at my toddler.
I feel guilty for feeling fed up and I worry I am screwing them up. I love my children, they are amazing but this job is so hard. No days off while breastfeeding, the only job you can't hand your notice in on! I clock watch but then feel I am wishing my life away. I know they will grow up too fast and I will miss these days when they are gone.
How do I make life more enjoyable again? How do I appreciate the time I have with my children?
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Ejr2012 · 11/10/2015 19:36
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