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Help me with plans to turn an unexpected child-free weekend into a romantic, sexy weekend

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BananaPudding · 05/11/2009 01:03

SIL has offered to take dd with her to visit mil and fil in New Mexico this weekend. It's been a long time since dh and I have had more than an afternoon alone, and I'm hoping we can capture a bit of the "old us" iykwim. So far I've got pretty predictable ideas:

new lingerie
bubble bath
wine
a nice meal
no alarm clock or commitments

What else might I plan? I'm pondering getting some sort of toy, but am undecided.

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claraquack · 05/11/2009 01:10

banana pudding - what you list sounds perfect. no children, no commitments, that's probably enough! A nice meal, some wine, some of the music from way back when playing on the the stereo....personally I don't think you need the bells and whistles, I am sure you'll have a fab time. Am very

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CybCybCybCybCybil · 05/11/2009 07:21

Oh come on we all know you'll spend the weekend catching up on the washing

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Malificence · 05/11/2009 11:45

Some really good lube, seriously.
If you're going to be at it all weekend the last thing you need is chafing!

Nice lube makes good sex even better, honestly. The two in one type massage oil/lube is nice, we've got a tingly, mint scented one that is nice but my favourite is the durex tingle lube because it tastes nice too, the cherry/pina colada ones are very sickly and quite sticky.
A vibrating ring might be a nice addition for the both of you too.

Have fun.

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Shiregirl · 05/11/2009 15:38

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Malificence · 05/11/2009 16:16

A cold flannel was needed at the weekend when we tried the heat lube!

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BananaPudding · 05/11/2009 22:47

So it sounds like I'm on the right track, just need to add lube to the list Thanks all!

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