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willitknockmyteethout · 18/10/2009 18:37

I've met a new man, we've been intimate I've found out he has his penis pierced, he wears quite a large ring in it.. does it stay in during sex? and how does one perform oral sex,

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harleyd · 18/10/2009 18:39

enjoy!

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willitknockmyteethout · 18/10/2009 18:42

harleyd you made me laugh, I intend to, but not sure how!
help

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Malificence · 18/10/2009 20:12

Erm, he didn't think to inform you of that not insignificant fact before you got down to it?
I've always wondered how you manage to have sex with pierced genitals . You can't have penetrative sex with it in surely???
Don't get it at all I'm afraid but then I find any body mutilation modification quite hideous.

Assuming you're fine with it then isn't it simplest to just ask him?

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Lovemyshoes · 18/10/2009 20:17

I THINK that it stays in. Obviously you have to take care if you have a tongue piercing and er ahem.

I have alot of friends with various genitalia piercings and apparently it increases sensitivity.

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muggglewump · 18/10/2009 20:21

I've the hood of my clit pierced and it does increase sensitivity.

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warthog · 18/10/2009 20:38

really? what was it like getting it done?

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Lovemyshoes · 18/10/2009 20:41

Apparently the piercing is relatively painless

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ObsidianBlackbirdMcNight · 18/10/2009 20:43

Just be careful it doesn't rip the condom. You might need extra thick ones! TBH I couldn't actually feel it inside, even without a condom.

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willitknockmyteethout · 18/10/2009 20:48

thanks for the replies...
Malificence... he did mention it... and no I wasn't about to give him a blow job at the time....
so how would I give a blow job... without it knocking all my teeth out... lol
he did say it didn't hurt.. but then he is big and tough...

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ObsidianBlackbirdMcNight · 18/10/2009 20:52

it's probably at the head of the penis so you can get your lips over it and go from there!

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willitknockmyteethout · 18/10/2009 20:55

but that just it Kat... its a big ring... its a bit like what I put my keys on lol.. there won't be room for everything in my mouth...

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paisleyleaf · 18/10/2009 20:58

Maybe ask him to take his keys off it first.

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willitknockmyteethout · 18/10/2009 21:02

PMSL....I don't think you are taking me seriously....
this is my first relationship since my seperation a year ago, and I've never encountered something like this before.. I so want to explore it with my tongue, but want to keep my teeth!

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ObsidianBlackbirdMcNight · 18/10/2009 21:04

So ask him to take it out for blowjobs! It's not worth chipping a tooth over...

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willitknockmyteethout · 18/10/2009 21:26

I will have to ask him, I just thought that as it increases sensitivity, that there was a knack of doing it with it in....

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