i am very unhappy in my relationship at the minute and really neeed some help with working out what to do. firstly im not sure if i am being unreasonable here about how he is treating me. he constantly puts me down, makes snide comments, gets very angry over silly things and i often find myself saying and doind certain things just to please him. am i mad to thing this is wrong? or am i just expecting to much?
for example yesterday when me and 3dc met him from work the first thing he said was i cant belive u have dressed dd in that top it looks shit she looks like a scab its too small. there was nouthin wrong with the top fits her fine. also he says he is sorry but always tries to turn it arpound so i have made him speak to me or the dc that way. he gets very angry over little things for example if i have not done the washing he wanted clean(without asking me) and mutters f*cking lazy bitch, stuff like that. also comes home from work and if the house is a mess will say what have u done all day sat on your ass? he doesnt get up with any of the dc, has not even got up with ds once since he has been born. he wont change a nappy or wash a dish.
i am now at the end of my tether and cant live with this man any longer. i just want to be on my own with dc, not walking on eggshells all the time. but i am pregnant at the mo and scared of leaving. anyone have any ideas or experience of leaving someone like this and any advice would be appreciated. thankyou for taking the time to read this.
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is he wrong for treating me this way? help plz!
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hopefulgal · 12/09/2009 08:40
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