Both live abroad and neither have come to visit my mum for some time (many years in my brothers case). Both claim lack of time or money and say 'next year, next year'
Now, my mum is nearly 75 and has a serious heart problem. How long is she likely to live? They all get on with her but either they don't really know how poorly she is (she never tells anyone anything) or have a head in the sand attitude 'of course she'll live for years, we have ages to visit'.
I think I should be sending them a stiff email reminding them how old she is and how 'too late' really is 'too late' and they cant keep putting it off.
I know if she dies they will be haunted by the 'putting off visiting'.
What do people think and how should I frame it?
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should I email my brother and sister?
TheDMshouldbeRivened · 11/09/2009 09:19
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