Ok a bit of background. Last december my half brother got in contact with me. I had grown up knowing about him but he never knew about me. That is another story though. We met up and got on well. My sister then asked me for his number which after i cleared it with him i gave her. We then were meant to meet for my birthday in Feb but first he was ill and then I was ill so it never happened. We eventually all met up in July. My sister, her dh,her dc,myself, dp, and my dc, Him, his dw and their dc.
Both DB and his DW commented how alike I was to HIS Sister (my dads daughter) who he doesn't talk to and hasn't done for ages. Anyway, cutting a long story short he has little to do with me and it feels to me that because I am apparently so like his sister he has shifted the feelings he has towards her onto me IYSWIM? anyway I find out today that my sister invited him, dw and their dc to a bbq yesterday but not me dp and my dc. I have to say it hurt.
I was talking to my friend and I said You know it was me he came to, me he spent the day with, me he questioned, got her number and dropped me. I need to say something".
So after a lot of consideration and thinking I sent him, well actually his wife an email explaining how i felt...I was pleasent and polite. I even explained I had emailed her as I did not want to hurt or upset him.
My sister Seems to be going out of her way to put a barrier between my brother and I. For example when I had ds2 christened, i never told him, but she went out of her way to do so. So that made me look bad. When we were meant to meet for my birthday even though i was unwell and couldn't go she went without me. Making a big thing out of it.
She and her dh arranged the BBQ yesterday without me and mine being involved and to be honest I am more than a bit peeved off.
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Half brother.....what would you have done?
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TheLadyEvenstar · 31/08/2009 21:46
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