My OH has taken a year off to do an MBA at buisness school.He finally finishes in august and has excepted a job in Newcastle (we are in essex), the plan is we will move up there at xmas as we have to give a terms notice at school.
He is away all week, comes home at weekends, sometimes doesnt as he has so much on.
I bring up the children on my own with very little support from him. I feel he is so wrapped up in himself and what he does (he says he is just providing for the family.) Im not sure how much love there is between us anymore, we have been toegther for 11yrs and I was only 17 at the time. I do love him but how do I know if im in love with him?
He has just emailed me with his 'schedule' for the next couple of months. It's crap, he will work in germany for a month, coming home every other week and then start Newcastle job beginning of sept.We will hopefully get a long weekend away soemwhere if I dont want to fly with the 2 DC to germany to see him.
I am getting anxious about going to Newcastle as im worried things will still be the same and he wont be there for me and the children. He is not very easy to talk to either.
I have just started on anti D's as im so down.
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Feel like a single mum, do EVERYTHING on my own and fed up.
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npg1 · 22/07/2009 16:47
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