unsure about relationship with dh we have dd whos 10 month and i have dd who is 11 while my dh is great if not a little over protective with baby. he is horrid to my 1st child who isn
t his. shes not an easy child but he doesn
t even talk to her now and if he does its to moan or shout at her for doing something he does
nt agree with , our relationship has become very fragile not just because of this, but he pays me no attention especially when it comes to being intimate we very rarely talk because when we do he is very opinionated what ever i say doesnt matter so i
ve given up talking about anything when he does speak to me its to complain about the way i
ve done or not done something .so torn between staying or going cant stand the atmosphere when he and my daughter together i
m stuck in the middle of the 2 . if i leave i know shell be a lot happier but what about my youngest daughter how will she cope When we got married i never dreamt i
d be thinking of leaving 2 years later but dont think we can live with this atmosphere much longer. when i
ve tried to talk to him he just blames everything on my eldest and says if she wasnt here everything would be fine (she
s not going anywhere) but i know they wouldn`t cos of his complete disinterest in me. need an outside opinion please
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akash · 09/07/2009 15:32
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