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Breastfeeding Blokes???

21 replies

curiouslass · 03/07/2009 18:35

Sorry all, really had to name change for this one!
DH likes to breastfeed as he calls it. From me, not his mother! I haven't breastfed the DC for years but still a little 'something' like milky stuff appears.
We don't do it often but when we do we both find it very sexy. Are we weird or anyone else do this? Had to find out, think we might be on our own!
I have had thoughts he might be a bit odd in the past or whether it's linked to any childhood stuff but normal sex life otherwise.

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lockets · 03/07/2009 18:38

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hunkermunker · 03/07/2009 18:39

LOL at "as he calls it" - like it's his own pet name for it.

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curiouslass · 03/07/2009 18:57

LOL at the both of you! Makes it sound pretty sordid now!
I had hoped someone might own up. Would need a name change though!

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Devendra · 03/07/2009 21:05

Nope not me but I can see how it may be sensual.. Are bodies are pretty dual purpose!
I read a book called 'The secret life of breasts' and there is a very sexy account in there of a couple who enjoyed breastfeeding.. its a great book full of anecdotal stories about breastfeeding!
If you enjoy it and its harmless then you are not odd.. enjoy!!

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LoveBeingAMummy · 04/07/2009 21:11

Sorry not here either however i ahve heard of this one, bet if you goggled it you would be quite shocked!!!!

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fourkids · 04/07/2009 22:07

If he goes on ebay he could buy himself a giant nappy and babygro to wear for it...makes me chuckle when I'm looking for fancy dress stuff and keep getting this stuff popping up!

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Worzsel · 04/07/2009 22:09

I'm breastfeeding at the moment and the thought of Df hsving a go is enough to turn my stomach..

Each to their own and all that though.

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BitOfFun · 04/07/2009 22:12

Really? I wouldn't have a problem with it. It's not hurting anyone, is it? I never managed much for my babies though, so I doubt DP would be any luckier...I'd draw the line at nappies though

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ToughDaddy · 04/07/2009 23:21

This is a sticky subject especially in the UK. On the platform at South Kensington, French lady started to breast feed six (guessing here) year old. People started to look at her like she was the devil herself. I think, it is up to her to decide where to stick it.

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inthemistsoftime · 04/07/2009 23:58

I think it can be very a very sensuous experience, both me and my ex enjoyed it immensely,

Am hoping the new partner gets it too

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whomovedmychocolate · 05/07/2009 10:31

You may find favour here Personally I think my boobs have enough of a hard time with the DC!

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poshsinglemum · 05/07/2009 11:06

It's a tinsy bit odd but if it turns you on then go for it.

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ToughDaddy · 05/07/2009 21:30

Lockets- SO you don't think that I could persuade DW that it is a way of cutting back on our supermarket bill?

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AnyFucker · 05/07/2009 21:41

what you do in the comfort of your own home, if it is not hurting anyone else, is completely your own business

this doesn't sound too far along a spectrum of weirdness, tbh

I can think of weirder things

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eclipse · 05/07/2009 21:59

I think this probably happens more than people let on. Surely if you have sex while breastfeeding (not literally - too weird) there's going to be some milk around. I would be upset if my dh had retched when that happened, and many people still produce something for years after stopping feeding with just a little 'stimulation'. Their husbands just don't call it anything. Maybe?

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ToughDaddy · 05/07/2009 22:14

Any confessions AnyFucker?

On my part, I will say that a breast full of milk is surely not a turn off.

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AnyFucker · 05/07/2009 22:21

-x-

keeping gob shut

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LynetteScavo · 05/07/2009 22:26

ToughDaddy - I imagine breastfeeeding a six year old would be a crime in France. No wonder she was in London.

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ToughDaddy · 05/07/2009 22:53

LynetteScavo - didn't realise that the French are so repulsed by this.

I use rice milk cos of my dairy intolerance ( fashionable to have a few intolerances these days). Next time we run out I will ask DW (nicely) if she could spare a drop or two for the tea.

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imaynotbeperfectbutimokmummy · 05/07/2009 23:10

i think its probably more common than you think

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