Right - feel a bit guilty posting this on here as some other posters are clearly dealing with far bigger dilemmas than this one - but I would love some advice on this.
I was seeing a guy for about two months, and then he dumped me, (by telephone I might add ) out of the blue. The reason he gave was that he had some unfinished business with his ex, and didn't feel that he could commit to a relationship at the time.
Although I was (very) upset at the time, I made an effort to keep things reasonably cordial as he is someone I have to work with occasionally.
Roll on three weeks: we meet for a drink - at his behest - ostensibly to discuss some work I was doing at school the following day. During the evening he apologises for being a twunt, explains that he's met up with his ex, realised that they have no future and has missed me madly. To be fair, he did say that he wasn't expecting me to leap into his arms immediately...,
I don't know what to do. I really like him, my heart leapt when he made the above speech. BUT, I was so upset when he dropped me last time round, and I'm not convinced that it's a good idea to give it a second go.
Any ideas? Am I being very unforgiving?
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Help - need some perspective on this one!
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geekgirl78 · 24/06/2009 20:48
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