Without reinventing the wheel, EXP abuser who gets supervised access of DD and still in throws of court case. (he is considered risk to her physically). Constantly abusive to me when he gets the chance etc etc which is esp hard as am 32 weeks pg with new DP.
DD has fab relationship with DP, who has been around since she was 14months, but have always made sure she knows who Daddy is.
Every year so far, made sure he has card/present from DD (EXP that is). This year, he has turned more vicious, cutting her maintenance without warning, threatening me and DP etc etc. I didnt get mothers day card or birthday card on hehalf of DD which he has always done in past.
His birthday came so I still sent a card to him from DD.
Things are even worse now and he is hardly paying for her at all.
Am going today to buy DP a card and present from her and soon to be baby. Do i get him (EXP) a card or not???? She will be seeing him later on a supervised visit!
My instinct is yes as I always try to do right thing, two wrongs don't make a right etc etc but he is so vile to us i feel hypocritical.
Help!!!
ps he doesnt speak to me at all, even though I have to supervise visits!!!
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Ryn · 19/06/2009 09:31
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