I split up with my SOn's Dad when he was just 4 months old. Had only known him for 6 months before I got pregnant, but it felt right at the time.
He has behaved very erratically at times throughout our relationship and afterwards.
He shouted and swore at my Mum when my son was 4 days old and my parents had come to stay.
Has been verbally abusive to me in public and in private.
I have found it very hard and lonely being on my own with my Son. I love him to bits, but feel exhausted mentally and physically at times.
My ex-partner is on anti-depressents now. He has admitted that he has behaved erratically.
He says that he loves me and his son, and he wwants desparately for us to try again.
I have just been on holiday with my parents for 12 days in France, with my son.
I found it very difficult at times.
I had several arguments with them. They were trying their best, and they love their Grandson. I just felt quite lonely at times, not the same as being with a partner.
Found it particularly hard seeing young children with both their parnets out and about, and me alone with my Son.
I don't think it will be an easy ride if I get back with my x partner.
My family don't like him, he won't be welcome at my parents, they live in Sussex, so won't have family support for our relationship, and my older brother doesn't like him. Actually wanted to beat him up when he swore at my Mum!, so won't be welcome at my brothers.
MMaybe in time, if we got back together, things would improve with my family.
The alternative would be for me to move to Sussex to be nearer my parents, and get a new job and start a new life.
Should I be brave and start a new life, or try to become a family again with my x-ppartner?.
Would be grateful for any advice.
My Son is 15 months old now.
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Should i try again with my x-partner
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summerholiday · 16/06/2009 10:29
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