Dh and I are planning to ttc next year. But I cant help feeling that he doesnt really want to and he is only saying yes to please me. I have tried to talk to him about it several times he just says he wants to but he is worried about me and he would ideally like to wait longer but knows that really isnt an option, as Im older than him. He says that sometimes he is unsure if he wants a child but if he does it will have to be next year or we might lose the chance so therefore he wants to. He also says he is sometimes excited about it but hides his emotions incase it goes wrong.
The problem is I want him to be excited and really want to have a baby. I really want us to have a baby but dont want him to feel rushed into it and end up resenting me and the baby. Am I asking too much?
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I dont think he wants to ttc
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orangehead · 15/06/2009 14:00
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