I am getting really worried that I don't love dh anymore. Since dd was born things have either been great or terrible.
These last few week we've done nothing but bicker and snitch at each other, had some blazing rows and I'm worried we don't feel the same for each other anymore. I know I love him and could never get someone as loyal and gentle as him, but I also feel so frustrated with him sometimes I could happily leave and never see him again (I think). This is unusual for us as for the first 5 years of our realtionship we never argued, when we moved in together we argued a bit, when we got married we argued a lot (in the run up) but that blew over, but since dd was born, I always seem to have cause to moan at him. I feel he isn't aware enough of what I do, when needs to be done etc. I'm always telling him what needs to be done for dd or in the house and then, I'm nagging.
We went for a meal last night to chat and have time without dd, but we both went to bed sad and a bit disappointed that it felt "flat".
Please tell me this is normal?
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Is this as bad as I think, or perfectly normal?
bibiboo · 21/04/2005 08:30
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